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D: Fruit and the yard…yard and the fruit. I won’t be able to get to the yard until the weekend, so the yard would be the place to start…sorting fruit…then cutting as needed. Thanks. Jen

David: I submitted the paperwork for Dismissal of the Injunction on my way home from work today. I dropped a copy of the paperwork off at Mike Morris’ office (through the slot). Immediately after I did that I remembered that you asked about paperwork and wanted some notice…I’m sorry that I thought of your request too late. I’m sure you’ll want to call Mike Morris in the morning. Because it was a temporary Injunction the judge could review and decide as early as tomorrow…I was told to call back at around 5:30 pm to find out. I will let you know. At one point, I remember that you mentioned that even with the Injunction lifted we still could not have other contact until you finished BIP…is that correct? Jen

Ellen: Is there a flaw in this SAT question? I think there is. Maybe I’m wrong. Would you check it out and get back to me?

Wednesday, September 9

If it is now 4:00 p.m. Saturday, in 253 hours from now, what time and day will it be? (Assume no daylight saving time changes in the period.)

A. 5:00 a.m. Saturday
B. 1:00 a.m. Sunday
C. 5:00 p.m. Tuesday
D. 1:00 a.m. Wednesday
E. 5:00 a.m. Wednesday

The DVD on the kitchen table titled Comparitive Religion includes a short segment on archery in zen.

So? What happened to Alex?

Dad

Jennifer:

I checked with Carmen, the clerk at No Abuse, and their records have me at week twenty-four. So, there are only two more weeks of class. My last class then will be the twenty eighth of this month. Today I also asked Joyce about marital counseling. She said her procedure works like this: BIP ends, you call her to arrange for an individual session, at the session she determines if you really want marital counseling and if you feel physically and emotionally safe. I have reservations about Joyce. So, I made a point of asking Mary Jane for an alternative when I called her today. She, as I’ve said earlier, feels the work she’s done with me might remove her objectivity, and it would be best for us to see someone new to us both. Her associate, Patricia Reyenga, is someone she recommends. Patricia can be reached at the Serenity office, 321-441-3720, or on her cell, 407-592-8503. You may call her at any time. Nevertheless, she may tell you, as Joyce told me, that she would prefer to wait for the BIP to end before having an initial individual session with you.

Today in BIP we watched Woman Thou Art Loosed. Our assignment is to write a reaction.

I was not at the house long today – I arrived late and class ran over. I did the dishes. I was not able to sort the fruit. I picked up the license plate cover – Ellen told me she’d gotten one for me, and I assumed the one on the table was mine. I checked the nest log of flight one and found three eggs – they should begin to hatch by Monday the 28th. It doesn’t look like anyone got to the lawn – it needs to be cut right away – it was too long last I cut it. There’s a pineapple growing next to the avocado. Let me know if there is anything in particular you would like me to attend to at the house this week.

Jen, I do object to the postion you are taking on custody of Ellen. To acquiesce to your 100% custody sets a precident that will not be acceptable in the future. I don’t know what I can or will do about it. Nevertheless, I do want to make it very clear that I do object and will do whatever I have a right to do.

Well, I’m off now for a swim with Dr. Camm.

David

D: I’d also like to ask you to remind me of what guidelines you need to continue to comply with as you complete BIP? I’m asking because I want to be sure not to infringe on anything that would prevent you from completing the class successfully. Have you seen Joyce to ask her about the “official” date of your last BIP class? Would you share with me what flower emotions you feel as you think about that last day of class? J

Ellen: It’s late Friday night and I’m quessing you’re still at the Big Game. I imagine you’ll be tired tomorrow. It’d be nice if we could just lay out in the sun for two hours without saying a word … I quess we’ll find something else to do. Dad

Dismissal of the Injunction: David, I would like to agree to a No Hostile Injunction between us. This would not be court ordered; however, it would follow the basic guidelines of a court ordered No Hostile Injunction, which are fairly straightforward and simple:

1. Be able to meet and/or see each other in public places
2. Blog contact could continue along with phone and/email
3. Continue with Monday-Friday (8 am – 1 pm) access to the house, with any additional access pre-arranged and agreed upon
4. Visits with Ellen to continue every Saturday, same time (10-Noon) at your parent’s home with one of your folks, or a family member or friend there. I will drop her off and pick her up.
5. Be able to meet for counseling sessions

Along the way – between you, Ellen and I – anything else can be added, agreed to, or changed, spur of the moment or with pre-planning.

So that’s it.

Judge Jenny

PS: I did talk with Ellen tonight about this and she is amiable. Please talk with your folks about it. I can submit the formal paperwork to proceed with the dismissal of the Injunction on Monday. It will take 3-5 days.

Jennifer: Your note on the front door, the note I’ve been seeing daily as I leave the house, that note said ‘plants on roof’. So, today I went up there to check it out. I think you’ve found your niche – roof gardens. If you can’t grow’em anywhere else, you sure make up for it growing plants on the roof. Wow! Rich soil up there.
Found a dead snake in the butterfly garden behind the computer room. Followed my nose. Big. Black. Dead.
Where do you get that special yogurt?
David

D: I did make it to the courthouse…submitted the motion for permission for you to attend the marching band performance/football game on Friday, the 18th. I dropped a copy off at Mike Morris’ office…the Injunction office said to call back Friday. I also went to talk to Harbor House and will post more about that either late tonight or tomorrow…right now Elle and I are going to have dinner and watch the old movie “Contact” with Jodie Foster. J